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“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” ― Marilyn Monroe

giovedì 29 dicembre 2011

FIRE TO PURIFY - FUOCO PURIFICATORE


2012 is nearly here and we are getting ready for a new year's eve party to spend with few good friends and family.

I'm thinking to start a new tradition...during the longest night of the year, just before midnight, I will ask my friends to write on a piece of paper what they want to forget/cancel of 2011...Then we will burn these pieces of paper hoping to burn all the things that hurt us during this nearly finished year!!!
In many religious/magic traditions fire is the element used to purify, it is also associated with life and passion...We will use the fire to clean the past and give the future new lymph!!!

Il 2012 è alle porte e ci stiamo preparando ad accoglierlo con un po' di buoni amici e famigliari.

Per quest'anno stavo pensando di intraprendere una nuova tradizione, durante la notte più lunga dell'anno, appena prima della mezzanotte, chiederò ai miei ospiti di scrivere su dei pezzi di carta ciò che intendono dimenticare/cancellare dell'anno che sta per finire...Poi bruceremo questi foglietti sperando di bruciare tutte quelle cose che ci hanno fatto star male durante il 2011!!!
In molte tradizioni religiose/macighe il fuoco è l'elemento usato per purificare ed è anche associato con la vita e la passione...Dunque useremo il fuoco per ripulire il passato e dare nuova linfa al futuro!!!

GBN

martedì 27 dicembre 2011

Expectations


What we have been waiting for 365 days just ended...We have now new toys, new clothes, new accessories for our phones or computer...and, for sure, new kilos to carry on after 3 days of food and drinks!!!

I really hope we had time to hear from people we can't see so often or time to think about who is not here anymore...or just time to think about what Christmas means for us...time for a warm hug...time to stare in each other's eyes...time for a long kiss...time to fight (if it means you are going to make love after)...time for your best friend...time for your family...time for your lover...

Another countdown is now on, in few days we will say bye-bye to 2011 and we will welcome a new year...So it's now time for good purposes and new expectations...please leave a note about yours, it will be fun to know what everyone, around the world is waiting for...

GBN

giovedì 22 dicembre 2011

Pensiero n. 2 - a different Christmas


L'albero è spento
non c'è fuoco nel camino
ne' neve in giardino.

E' un Natale triste
senza musica
senza gioia
senza doni

Ce ne saranno altri
bisogna solo saper aspettare.




The lights are off
the fireplace too
no snow in the garden.

It's a sad Christmas
no music
no joy
no gifts

Next time will be different
we just need to wait for.

Gio.B.N

mercoledì 21 dicembre 2011

...we should be stronger...


‎"Ours is essentially a tragic age, so we refuse to take it tragically. The cataclysm has happened, we are among the ruins, we start to build up new little habitats, to have new little hopes. It is rather hard work: there is now no smooth road into the future: but we go round, or scramble over the obstacles. We’ve got to live, no matter how many skies have fallen."
— D.H. Lawrence (Lady Chatterley's Lover)

The Night Before Christmas




Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care, In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there;

The children were nestled all snug in their beds, While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;
And mamma in her 'kerchief, and I in my cap, Had just settled down for a long winter's nap,

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash, Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below,
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear, But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer,

With a little old driver, so lively and quick, I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came, And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name;

"Now, DASHER! now, DANCER! now, PRANCER and VIXEN! On, COMET! on CUPID! on, DONNER and BLITZEN!
To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall! Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!"

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly, When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky,
So up to the house-top the coursers they flew, With the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas too.

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my hand, and was turning around, Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot, And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot;
A bundle of toys he had flung on his back, And he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.

His eyes -- how they twinkled! his dimples how merry! His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow, And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow;

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth, And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath;
He had a broad face and a little round belly, That shook, when he laughed like a bowlful of jelly.

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf, And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself;
A wink of his eye and a twist of his head, Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work, And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk,
And laying his finger aside of his nose, And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose;

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle, And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, ere he drove out of sight,
"HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A GOOD-NIGHT!"

Clement Clarke Moore

lunedì 19 dicembre 2011

Xmas Time - part 1!


Life is very complicated but full of little satisfactions too...It's maybe the magic power of Christmas...Anyway let's start with some traditional italian recipe to make these cold days warmer!!!

The 24th, due the Christian tradition, we usually don't eat meat. It means fish fish fish!!! My mum likes cooking salmon or "spigola" (not sure about the translation...my dictionary gives me "bass"!). Of course, being in Italy, we can't forget pasta...You can follow your taste but I would suggest "vongole" (clams) pasta.
Very typical in Rome is fried vegetables...The king of the season is definitely the artichoke!!! But we also have broccoli, cauliflower even apples if you like!!!
Don't forget white wine, from Frascati area if you are from Rome!!!
Last part of our special dinner is all about sweets...Torroni (nougats), panettone (a kind of big sponge cake filled by raisin), dried fruits...and more and more!!!

The most important ingredient is sharing all of this with your family!!!

...to be continued...

domenica 18 dicembre 2011

First Christmas at home

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in few days I will insert few italian traditions...don't miss them especially if you are a food lover!

venerdì 16 dicembre 2011

Gibran - amatevi l'un l'altro


"Amatevi l'un l'altro, ma non fatene una prigione d'amore:
Piuttosto vi sia un moto di mare tra le sponde delle vostre anime.
Riempitevi l'un l'altro le coppe, ma non bevete da un'unica coppa.
Datevi sostentamento reciproco, ma non mangiate dello stesso pane.
Cantate e danzate insieme e state allegri, ma ognuno di voi sia solo,
Come sole sono le corde del liuto, benché vibrino di musica uguale.
Donatevi il cuore, ma l'uno non sia di rifugio all'altro,
Poiché solo la mano della vita può contenere i vostri cuori.
E siate uniti, ma non troppo vicini;
Le colonne del tempio si ergono distanti,
E la quercia e il cipresso non crescono l'una all'ombra dell'altro".


‎"Love one another, but make not a bond of love
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup, but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread, but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping;
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together;
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow".

venerdì 9 dicembre 2011

LOVE IS A LOSING GAME


I always loved this song...in its deep sadness...


For you I was the flame,
Love is a losing game
Five story fire as you came,
Love is losing game
One I wish I never played,
Oh, what a mess we made
And now the final frame,
Love is a losing game
Played out by the band,
Love is a losing hand
MOre than I could stand,
Love is a losing hand
Self professed and profound
Tilter tips were down
Know you’re a gambling man
Love is a loosing hand
Tho’ I battled blind,
Love is a fate resigned
Memories mar my mind,
Love is a fate resigned
Over futile odds,
And laughed at by the Gods
And now the final frame,
Love is a losing game